RELATED: 8 Lucky Aspects In The Natal Chart Special square formations in astrology But in time the energies will lean into the shared modality and take it from there. You'll still feel like a clown half the time. Ultimately though, if you have a square aspect in your birth chart or in your synastry chart with someone else, the thing you should remember is that the only way to counter this aspect is for both energies to meet halfway and somehow figure out a way to make it work. For example, Mars square Pluto synastry reveals a dead-locked relationship that's full of power struggles with both people trying to conquer the other in the relationship and neither ever succeeding. The same is observed in synastry readings between two people. Your Gemini Sun's desires to be a part of a social network will get thwarted by your Pisces Mercury's habit of engaging people in too-deep conversations about life and spirituality, even though you have just met them a few seconds ago, thus getting you cast as “the weirdo” by the group. For example, if you have Mercury in Pisces forming a square aspect with your Sun in Gemini, the way your mind and intelligence work will always be inconvenient for the goals you wish to achieve in life.